50 Questions for People Married a LONG Time

These questions for people married for a long time are great to sprinkle into your day-to-day, or used when spending an extended time together - like a road trip. Spice things up and talk about more than the cows you see along the way! (The questions that are bolded are great to remember your partner's answers so you can implement them in the future!)

1. What’s your favorite memory from our wedding day?

2. What was the first thing that attracted you to me?

3. What’s a place we’ve visited that you’d love to go back to?

4. What’s your favorite meal we’ve shared together? Why was it your favorite?

5. How do you think our relationship has changed over the years?

6. What’s the most adventurous thing we’ve done together?

7. What’s a skill or hobby you’ve always wanted to learn?

8. What’s a book or movie that has had a big impact on you?

9. What are some dreams or goals you still want to achieve?

10. What’s something new you’d like to try together?

11. How do you feel our communication has evolved over time?

12. What’s a challenge we’ve faced that made us stronger?

13. What’s your favorite tradition we’ve created together?

14. What do you appreciate most about our relationship?

15. What’s a funny moment we’ve shared that still makes you laugh?

16. What’s a song that reminds you of our time together?

17. What’s your favorite way to spend a quiet evening with me?

18. How do you think we’ve influenced each other’s lives?

19. What’s a place you’ve always wanted to visit together?

20. What’s the best gift I’ve ever given you? Why was it so good?

21. How do you like to show love and affection?

22. What’s a new hobby or interest we could explore together?

23. What’s a dream or goal you had when we first met that you’ve achieved?

24. How do you feel we’ve supported each other over the years?

25. What’s a quality in me that you admire the most?

26. What’s a lesson we’ve learned together that you’re grateful for?

27. How do you like to spend time when you’re alone?

28. What’s a tradition from your childhood that you’ve enjoyed sharing with me?

29. What’s a way we could improve our relationship even more?

30. What’s a piece of advice you’d give to a newly married couple?

31. What’s something you’re proud of that we’ve accomplished together?

32. How do you like to be comforted when you’re feeling down?

33. What’s a favorite holiday memory we’ve created together?

34. What’s a way you like to show gratitude?

35. How do you think we’ve grown as individuals since we first met?

36. What’s a quality you’ve developed over the years that you’re proud of?

37. What’s a place that holds special meaning for you in our relationship?

38. How do you feel about the way we handle disagreements?

39. What’s a lesson about love and partnership you’ve learned from our marriage?

40. What’s a small gesture that always makes you feel loved?

41. How do you envision our future together?

42. What’s a project or goal we could work on together in the coming years?

43. What’s a way we could bring more fun and spontaneity into our lives?

44. How do you feel about the way we balance our individual interests and shared activities?

45. What’s something you’d like to revisit or redo from our past?

46. How do you think our relationship has influenced our children or those around us?

47. What’s a quality in yourself that you’re thankful I’ve supported?

48. How do you feel we’ve built our home and life together?

49. What’s a way we could continue to grow and learn as a couple?

50. What’s a dream or aspiration you have for our next chapter together?

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